Navigating singles events can be challenging, especially if you are a woman hoping that someone will ask you to dance. Or, if you are a man, wishing you could figure out who would say yes!  Ladies, make it easy for a man to ask. The key is to be friendly and approachable--you don't have to be drop-dead gorgeous or the best dancer around. Here are six easy ways to attract more dance invitations.

1) Dress for dancing: Wear clothes that he won’t get his hands tangled in. No floaty tops, dangling scarves, jackets, or fabrics that don't breathe. Don low to medium heeled shoes with leather soles so that you'll move easily on the dance floor. Your jewelry should be minimal, so that it won't catch on clothing or get in his way.

2) As you enter the dance venue, smile and say “hi” to as many men as you can. Pretend that you know every man there and have to say hello to him. This creates an aura of being flirtatious and amiable. Most of the men attending will see you as the type of woman who won't reject him. Even guys who you don’t talk with will feel more comfortable asking you to dance.

3) Tell your girlfriends that you’ll see them later, and go off on your own. You'll seem more approachable if you’re not absorbed in a conversation. Move slowly around the edge of the dance floor. Men who want to dance will stand nearby—those who don’t will go elsewhere. Smile and say "hi" to some of them, while you keep moving.

4) Be aware of dance traffic patterns, and take advantage of them. As you circulate, keep an eye out for the areas where most of the dancers walk onto the dance floor. When the music changes, you will see a flow of people in one or two areas. Often this will be the two front corners of the dance floor. This is where you want to be when the music changes. As men leave the dance floor, you will be seen as someone who is available to dance.

5) Body Language: Smile, and gently move your body to the music while you enjoy watching dancers. Don't try to catch a guy's eye while you're waiting--you'll seem desperate. If you hold your arms at waist level, while keeping your hands empty, you’ll appear ready to dance.

6) Most men love being asked to dance. To minimize the risk of being turned down, ask someone who is standing near the dance floor. He’ll probably accept. Perhaps he’ll say, “Later.” Maybe he’ll find you later on—or not. If he doesn’t, don’t take it personally, just say “next!”

The key to using these tips is act relaxed and friendly. Have fun!