Dear Annie, I met a very attractive guy at a singles event. We had a great conversation, and I was thrilled when he asked for my phone number. I thought that we'd really clicked. Well, it's been a couple of weeks, and he never called. What with the kind of chemistry that we had, I'm really surprised. Maybe he lost my number. Should I try to contact him? Karen

Dear Karen, It's time to say "next!" and move forward. There are great guys just around the corner. However, it's going to be difficult to notice them if your emotions are invested in someone who isn't calling you.

I doubt that he lost your number. Chances are that when he got home, he simply wasn't moved to call. He probably had a great time talking with you, but felt that there was no romantic future for the two of you. Men sometimes ask for phone numbers for reasons that might puzzle women. He may have wanted to end the conversation on an up-note. He could have been curious to see if you liked him enough to give him your number. He may be part way in or out of a relationship, and want your number just in case it doesn't work. Whatver his reasons, he decided not to call.

If I could, I would train all guys not to ask for a number unless they were definitely going to call. That being impossible, your best bet is to arm yourself. When you give out your number, expect that he may call. Resolve that you won't move forward emotionally until he's called, made plans, and you've actually gone out on a few dates. You won't know if he's your match for a while, so take it slow and enjoy! Here's to a great love life! Annie